Insecure Emotions....

The world keeps turning, hearts keep breaking, while some get mended, others stay broken... Our lives have become filled with expectations of that one great love that is to come into our lives. Fairy tales and romantic comedies portray the exceptional exceptions that happen in reality. Born in to the world alone, with the rarity of multiple births (<2%) of course, we all try to find that soul mate... The person who wouldn't bring us to tears or the person whom we would never have an ill moment with...

What do you think of that notion??!!

I think "It's BULL SHIT"

Why?

 

Cause it's not realistic!

 

Considering the wrong and the crap this world is filled with, I'd think everyone is bound to bring on your tears. No one's exempt from life!

 

To find someone who will bring on your tears, yet immediately try to wipe them away...

Someone who sees you smile and still tries to make you laugh...

A person who knows you're alone and yet keeps making excuses to call you...

Someone whose willing to battle the world to find you without even having met you...

Is it a fairy tale?

OR is it realistic?

I honestly don't know...



 

In our search for love, I've seen many of my friends undermine their morals, their own friends and at times themselves. The prospect of a fully functional relationship is so important that it's almost like "TO HELL WITH WHO I AM, at least I'm not ALONE"... *Sigh* Unfortunately they forget that its only the prospect of one that they are sacrificing so much for...

 

I'm not trying to sound like I'm any better but where did the respect and understanding go?

Is it about weighing in the wins and losses, or just compromising?

As long as you're comfortable with who you are and what you sacrifice in order to get your happily ever after, you should be fine!

 

I've realised that if you truly completely want that story, that magical story you get to share on your wedding day... If you want that, you've got to be crazy brave and willing to rough out a big fat drought of no SUGA!!!

 

 

To all those people who second guess themselves and their beliefs... To everyone who feels like shit when you don't get a call back or don't get a reply to your text message... You don't have to strive for someone's attention. It probably means that "He/She just isn't for you!" or that "He/She is a complete dick/bitch"... There maybe a million different excuses, you may even think that you have too high expectations/standards. But the fact of the matter is that if you mean enough to them, the honeymoon would have started the first day you set eyes on each other. You may feel like "Oh he/she just isn't that type of person...". STOP making excuses for somebody else, the question is "Is that how YOU want to be treated"

 

We all have our own quirks and habits that make us who we are. Don't find someone who'll laugh at you for that, who'd ridicule you and make you change them... Unless of course they are beyond weird!! Find someone who laughs with you and smiles with you for that which makes you unique. Someone who'll look at you for the gift that you are and the gift he/she's gonna keep forever... Or death do you part... :P :D

Life's way tooo short to second guess ourselves... GET Out there!!! LIVE IT UP!!! Don't change for anybody, unless it's for yourself...
 

CAUSE YOU MATTER!!!!

Cause it's your story too...

Cause you deserve to be treated like a million bucks tooo....

Snow Whites and Supermans don't really grow on trees...

But if they are around...

It's not a bad idea to keep waiting around for them, ryte?