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HYPERACTIVE...

SMILE cause you can!

Be afraid when you should be...

Be careful when you need be...

Otherwise?

Just live...

Just dream...

Cause that's LIFE!

&

Just...

SMILE,

 Cause it'll just feel awesome to...

 

 

If you're down,

Tune up the music,

Something upbeat!

&

Feel the beat,

Feel the moves...

Take over you...

Care not about the world,

Just breath,

& Control the dream...

 

Dance like you're nuts,

SING out loud!

Even if you suck.

Make em stare,

Who cares,

Cause all you need was a big fat SMILE...

 

 

Insecure Emotions....

The world keeps turning, hearts keep breaking, while some get mended, others stay broken... Our lives have become filled with expectations of that one great love that is to come into our lives. Fairy tales and romantic comedies portray the exceptional exceptions that happen in reality. Born in to the world alone, with the rarity of multiple births (<2%) of course, we all try to find that soul mate... The person who wouldn't bring us to tears or the person whom we would never have an ill moment with...

What do you think of that notion??!!

I think "It's BULL SHIT"

Why?

 

Cause it's not realistic!

 

Considering the wrong and the crap this world is filled with, I'd think everyone is bound to bring on your tears. No one's exempt from life!

 

To find someone who will bring on your tears, yet immediately try to wipe them away...

Someone who sees you smile and still tries to make you laugh...

A person who knows you're alone and yet keeps making excuses to call you...

Someone whose willing to battle the world to find you without even having met you...

Is it a fairy tale?

OR is it realistic?

I honestly don't know...



 

In our search for love, I've seen many of my friends undermine their morals, their own friends and at times themselves. The prospect of a fully functional relationship is so important that it's almost like "TO HELL WITH WHO I AM, at least I'm not ALONE"... *Sigh* Unfortunately they forget that its only the prospect of one that they are sacrificing so much for...

 

I'm not trying to sound like I'm any better but where did the respect and understanding go?

Is it about weighing in the wins and losses, or just compromising?

As long as you're comfortable with who you are and what you sacrifice in order to get your happily ever after, you should be fine!

 

I've realised that if you truly completely want that story, that magical story you get to share on your wedding day... If you want that, you've got to be crazy brave and willing to rough out a big fat drought of no SUGA!!!

 

 

To all those people who second guess themselves and their beliefs... To everyone who feels like shit when you don't get a call back or don't get a reply to your text message... You don't have to strive for someone's attention. It probably means that "He/She just isn't for you!" or that "He/She is a complete dick/bitch"... There maybe a million different excuses, you may even think that you have too high expectations/standards. But the fact of the matter is that if you mean enough to them, the honeymoon would have started the first day you set eyes on each other. You may feel like "Oh he/she just isn't that type of person...". STOP making excuses for somebody else, the question is "Is that how YOU want to be treated"

 

We all have our own quirks and habits that make us who we are. Don't find someone who'll laugh at you for that, who'd ridicule you and make you change them... Unless of course they are beyond weird!! Find someone who laughs with you and smiles with you for that which makes you unique. Someone who'll look at you for the gift that you are and the gift he/she's gonna keep forever... Or death do you part... :P :D

Life's way tooo short to second guess ourselves... GET Out there!!! LIVE IT UP!!! Don't change for anybody, unless it's for yourself...
 

CAUSE YOU MATTER!!!!

Cause it's your story too...

Cause you deserve to be treated like a million bucks tooo....

Snow Whites and Supermans don't really grow on trees...

But if they are around...

It's not a bad idea to keep waiting around for them, ryte?



Fathers... DAY

As father's day approaches and we celebrate the love, the example, the devotion and the spirit which are "Fathers", let's thank the papa bears out there for being gr8 dads! Being a father is an easy thing, all you need is a fertile womb and few working tadpoles, oOps! I meant hmmm well scientifically there are referred to as sperm.

The world is full of fathers, some who wanted children and others who weren't probably that excited about it. I've seen many examples of great dads, on movies and in reality. For example; my uncle, he was an amazing example of a great dad. My cousins were clearly no angels when they were growing up, but wow! The way my uncle handled them, was so cool! He was so corny around them and at the same time pretty hilarious. No matter what happened in life, his first preference was always, always those 4 amazing women in his life... He raised 3 goofy, extraordinary, independent women. As an uncle he gave me the best gifts ever, 3 amazing sisters whom I love a lot! He will always be remembered and I will always remember him simply because when I have kids.... That's the way I want to treat my kids, with unconditional love...

Sometimes life hands us, a very bad hand in a game of poker, full of deviant crazy people. Some people aren't meant to be dads but they become fathers nonetheless. This world is balanced by the good, the bad and the in-between. A moral compass is a gift and common sense a treasure, all of which are required to go down a path which leads to the "WORLD'S GREATEST DAD!!!" award. Fortunately there's no award like that, otherwise we wouldn't know if it's the award they were after...

 

During the early years of my life, my father didn't play much of a hands on role in my life. I barely got to see him or spend time with him. Sadly I didn't have a person to really look up to, in that way. I still remember a specific project my English teacher gave us when I was in middle school. 

 

"Follow your father around and write a report on your dad's career and what's it like at work with him" 

 

Unfortunately my father wasn't in the country at the time and my teach wasn't really in a mood to cut me out of the class assignment. It was tough, but I followed my uncle around and faked a report instead. My life was clearly no movie, there wasn't anyone waiting at the end of the day to say "I'm back and I'm back for good!" But I do have a mum, who played both roles "mum and dad" pretty well. She's an amazing fearless lady whom I am very proud to call my role model and my MUM...

 

My dad played the best hand of poker in life he could... He's my father and my dad no matter what... I love him for trying... Cause that's all you could hope for, isn't it? No ones really trained for the job, it's not really genetics but I've heard the pay off is amazing... Especially the memories...

 

So this father's day, let's remember our dads!!

The ones who are awesome,

the ones who aren't,

the ones we hardly know,

the ones we don't know...

and most of all the ones who try...

 

Happy FATHERs DAY Everyone!!!

Friends help... or do they...?

It's hard enough finding great friends, it's way more difficult keeping the ones you've found. It's clearly life that gets in the way, but the question is do you keep giving those whom you love, an excuse to be the crappiest friend in your life??



Every story out there has got black, white and grey shades to it. There's no hard question to ask yourself or ask them. Neither is there a simple questionnaire to a successful friendship.

Some friendships wean out, others break up right in front your eyes, a few go out with a bang and just a few last a lifetime... I've experienced them all...

Is it purely about give and take?
They say true friends give! give!! and GIVE!! and don't expect anything in return... But let's be honest! We're human! And we expect something from any relationship. With so many hardships and celebrations to be encountered we expect our friends to support us when we're down and party with us when there's booze around. Whether it's a good bra or jock strap, we all need the support... The one thing that's definite is our sorrows...

 

So the question is "Are they around when you need them?"

No friendship is selfless, except for that which we share with our parents. There may be exceptions with regard to that statement, but I do thank GOD everyday for not being one of those exceptions. Back to the topic... I've found that people who only remember you when things are grim! Are clearly a part of your crap circle! It's like a constant flow of bull shit with no end. I suggest you throw some shit back.

 

You deserve to be treated right!

 

Does drama follow as well? That's probably the worst thing to have in your life. It's way too much stress and a lot of immaturity to entertain on a daily basis. I have encountered so many of these situations and have at times blamed myself. But the thing is, you can't cause drama by yourself. You need someone else to play a part in it. The world is after all your stage, you can't bring down the curtain all by yourself.  If you're the crappy mate, you deserve a bitch slap. If you can't reason with them, just leave them behind. You got to!! If you can't, then you need a psych consultation!

If you're not being treated with respect and considered the way you're suppose to, there's something wrong! CUZ you MATTER! Which begs the question...

 

"Whom are you befriending?"

 



Everybody doesn't have to love YOU.

YOU don't have to love everybody.

It takes guts to tell people off, especially the ones that deserve it!

 

You're friendship is truly valuable and not everyone you meet deserves it.

Crappy baboons deserve one another...

Humble lambs, well I have no clue what they do!

You may not be able to change everyone, Dats okie!

It's not your job.

Everyone of us are the company we keep.

Sometimes you need to stop and take a look at those whom you associate.

So once in a while you do need to do some spring cleaning...

If you can't do the cleaning in person, just delete them on Facebook...

Effective but cowardice....